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Friday, March 03, 2006

Points to Ponder

Friendships.
Relationships.

Sometimes people think this is the wisest thing to do : to bring it "to the next level". Simply based on the assumption that they know each other too well for things to NOT work out. Common.

Loving someone and liking someone is not the same thing. Being fond of someone and being comfortable with someone are also two different things. So how can people conclude that "knowing each other too well" means its going to work out between them? Of course, knowing someone inside out (rightside up) is a plus point, but I dont see how it helps a both parties in the relationship grow. Its like picking up facts from the pages of an encyclopedia, and when you've done with it, thats it. You'll remember details of the things you've read about, and remember it as it was. Easy way out. Its easier being told than to make your own discovery. According to Someone, there's no more mysteries to solve when you can read someone like a Book.

The Society despise anything that is considered "out of the norm". They came up with unspoken rules that everyone should oblige themselves to. What happens when at a point of your life, you stumble upon something that will require you to break every single rule that you obediently obey all these while? Could Smell disaster round the corner. Yet people still do whatever they feel they should do, or else they'd regret it for the rest of their lives. (Because it is forbidden, therefore it is more tempting) *Rules are only guidelines anyway ..

*damn..i had alot more to write. But was "interrupted". ...

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